Romance is ...

• Loving yourself before you love anyone else
• Hugging
• Giving or receiving a massage...better yet, a foot massage
• Caressing with slow, gentle strokes
• Admitting mistakes
• Flirting in public
• Indulging a whim
• Listening
• Being trustworthy
• Telling him/her what you'd prefer, instead of complaining
• Looking into his/her eyes
• Sending flowers for no reason...hint, hint gentlemen :-)
• Asking him/her to show you how to do something
• Calling when you are going to be late
• Asking what he/she would like sexually
• Taking an afternoon drive more than 1 hour from home
• Cuddling
• A surprise date
• Doing something he/she wants to do
• Really listening
• Serving him/her breakfast in bed
• Taking a shower together
• Carrying his/her photo in your wallet
• Going away together for a weekend holiday
• Smiling when you look at him/her
• Going for a bicycle ride together
• Surprising him/her with "special" attire
• A picnic lunch
• Surprising him/her with a gift when it's a non-holiday
• Cooking a favorite meal
• Trying a new restaurant
• Being proud of him/her
• Asking for his/her opinion
• Turning on romantic music
• Watching the sunset together (preferably on a beach)
• Inviting him/her to a concert
• Letting him/her know you care
• Dancing in the rain
• Sleeping together (actually sleeping, no sex)